afinaby361
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I am the Raw Deal Diva!
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Post by afinaby361 on Mar 9, 2006 12:06:03 GMT -5
I don't understand it at all. I know everyone has seen these people. You go to a party and are having a great time...until you see that person. Imedeiatly the energy in the room disipates as they sit there, in the corner, by themselves, sipping on random alcholic beverage A looking miserable. So, being the nice person that I am I try to make conversation with them hoping to get some sort of slight human emotion from this depressing individual. Well that is like pulling teeth from a rock! I have had better conversations with myself while not answering myself! The wall has more personality than them. Eventually we decide the evening must move on, so we try various ways to get everyone involved. Kareoke, DDR, Drinking games...nope, the energy in the room is still gone. I mean what the fuck, yeah the only reason she was there was because her boyfriend asked her to be, but still make some sort of an effort to act like you wanna be there! So we aren't all 18 yr old stoner alcoholics like her, thats because we grew out of that. Why he is craddle robbing that psycho bitch I don't know, but at least she has more of a personality than the last one...That girl was FUCKED up and made pulling a rock's teeth look easy.
And another thing...what is up with guys and their fuck'em and dump'em attitude? If a girl did that she would be classified as a whore, but not a guy. Oh no, he's a player. Oh please. No offense to anyone on the board...but men suck!
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Post by ddp on Mar 9, 2006 15:24:08 GMT -5
not all of us men suck theres a few out there that treat women with respect that they deserve but yes there is a alot out there that are pieces of work
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Post by RawManiac on Mar 9, 2006 23:49:07 GMT -5
I usually treat all womens with respect, unless they're the freaky ones and then you just use those, but thats why I have so many friends that are girls because I'm just a funny guy and cool to hang around.
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Solid Soldier
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Post by Solid Soldier on Mar 10, 2006 2:19:05 GMT -5
I also treat women with respect mainly because it's a moral thing and it makes me feel better about myself. Being a "player" (aka: man-whore) is something that's... not cool. Sure, in the end I'm the one getting cheated on and dumped and used... in other words: in my experience, nice guys finish last, but at least I'm not going to hell.
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afinaby361
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Post by afinaby361 on Mar 10, 2006 13:37:23 GMT -5
Well, nice sane girls finish last too. Well, thanks for reading my rant. You guys seem cool, I hope everything works out ok for you. Nice guys be patient, you'll get there!
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Post by RawManiac on Mar 11, 2006 17:10:47 GMT -5
Yeah sadly, nice guys usually finish last or just become "friends" which sucks. Because if nice guys would always get the girls I'd be a pimp, lol. But thats why you have to be a nice guy and find that nice girl, and thats the perfect match.
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Post by Krackerjack on Mar 15, 2006 22:58:27 GMT -5
In short a fat man (I.E. ME) never gets laid. Because I'm too damn kind. And too damn fat.. I'm not really fat I just like to make myself fat in mind. I dunno I'm pyscho. However, I hate energy suckers too. I've probably been one at one time, but I've changed and realized that life is fun so might as well take advantage of it
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Post by angelofbrutaltruth on Apr 4, 2006 23:06:18 GMT -5
i'm not sure if i'm an energy sucker or not. ilike to feel that no matter what i am not doing at the party the party goes on without me. i hope that i fade into the wall and noone sees me. i hope i'm not bringing the party down. i don't seem to.
anyway. if you one of those types of people. we don't really want you coming up and talking to us. we normally don't wanna be there. we are there for usually 2 reasons. to keep some friend happy. even we nned someone to talk so we go to thses things to be good friends. friends will dump you if you nothing all the time. the second reason is that we keep hearing that something must be wrong with us because we don't being at these parties/ bars etc...so we start to feel like there is something wrong or that we are missing something so we attempt ot fit in which we don't so we end up feeling worse than if we stayed home.
i am of course only talking for me but other social misfits that i know have told me the same thing. to quote mike muir of suicidal tendencies "i'm lonliest when i'min a crowd"
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